Sunday, October 7, 2012

I would be totally remiss...

I would be totally remiss if I didn't write a separate blog post to thank Lindsey for her amazing help for 2 weeks. She is the 'minimalist' in the family, so when I learned that she'd be coming to stay with us, I pleaded with her (OK, maybe that's a bit of an exaggeration!) to help me with de-junking the house in anticipation of us putting it on the market.

She was more than willing to help. I think this could be a future career for her if she wanted to! She would go from room to room boxing things up and taking them outside in preparation for the mother of all yard sales.

I posted this comment on facebook on September 17th: "Day 1 of Lindsey dejunking and me painting is coming to a close. Good progress, very good progress! I feel a little bit like those people on the hoarding shows...we'll know I'm in need of a full blown intervention if I'm caught in the middle of the night with my headlight on going through the boxes out back set aside for the yard sale/thrift store to 'rescue' my precious possessions! lol"

I tried really hard to work on my home improvement projects and stay out of the room she was working in so I wouldn't see what was being taken outside. Of course when all was said and done and we were setting up and holding the yard sale Darvin and I both 'saved' some of our possessions from being sold...but I think I still did pretty well. We should have taken pictures of the masses of 'goods' for sale.

Aside from my mom's oriental rug that we ultimately sold because of the yard sale for a meager $300, we made about $2,200 on 2 days of yard sale and LOTS of years of buying and days of dejunking and boxing and then setting up! In fact, there was so much left over that I recruited the Smith's to run a 2nd yard sale with us splitting the proceeds. They are free to bring anything of theirs that they want and will collect 100% profit on it. They'll be holding the yard sale this next weekend.

I'm still trying to sell one of my couches. It is in superb condition, but unfortunately the style (flowering) is not appealing to many people. I hope to have Evan help me take it outside to the yard sale this time so it is displayed. Maybe if we lower the price to $100 someone will be interested. I have an awesome Schwinn stationery recumbent bike for sale too.

I've also been trying to sell snow tires and new cloth diapers for Briana and Ivan without success. I need to go write down the tire size and get a separate advertisement on Craigslist for them.

I'm making progress on the home improvement/maintenance projects, slowly but surely. I just feel like time is running out. I really wanted to get the house on the market before we left for our cruise here in a couple of weeks, but just don't think I'm going to make it!

While Lindsey was here she commented a couple of times that she wished she could do more, but had to tend to baby Brooklyn. I think she was full of baloney, I have proof that we had a built in babysitter (just kidding):
Abby, loves her babies when they come to visit! She loves snuggling with them and hovering to make sure everything's OK. And in all honesty, despite having to split time between de-junking and taking care of baby Brooky, Lindsey did a huge amount of work for which I will forever be grateful!

While they were here we did make some time to go visit Great Grandpa Clement:

This little girl is a baby Houdini, she can get out of her swaddle in 60 seconds flat...Tu-Dah!

It was so good to have Lindsey and Brooklyn here for a couple of weeks. We'll miss them tremendously when we move to Texas!

Saturday, October 6, 2012

50th Birthday? Where has the time flown? Best birthday EVER!

Where to start? What a spectacular 50th birthday! Well week really!

Tuesday night my sweet visiting companion took our friend Nancy Whalen and me to an early birthday dinner at Olive Garden.

Nancy's 55th birthday was Wednesday
and my 50th was Friday.
We had a fabulous time visiting and eating the all you can eat soup and salad bar.

Thursday Darvin took me and Grandpa Clement to an early birthday lunch at Old Country Buffet. We thought it would be a good choice because it would be quick (I had a dentist appointment that I needed to go to afterwards and we couldn't go until after Grandpa's blood draw) and there would be lots of menu choices. Well it turns out that maybe all those choices were a little confusing for Grandpa. But he did find some fried chicken and mashed potatoes, etc.

I got the front porch stained
BEFORE

DURING



AFTER

and the lamppost painted black to match the carriage lights and front porch light.
DURING
AFTER
Our sweet Yakima adopted kids insisted that we come over for an early birthday party and dinner since Darvin had to work the late shift on Friday. Aaron and Wendy made delicious smoked ribs and beans and twice baked potatoes and we had yummy lemon birthday cake!
When you're as old as me, you need help blowing out the birthday candles! lol
Sweet little Mason got to pick out a birthday gift for Nana Denise. Wendy took him to Walmart and told him he could pick out anything he wanted for me. I was expecting something with tires (aka Monster truck, etc). Mason did not disappoint as he picked out a beautiful balloon with a race car on it! He was coveting the balloon, so I made sure to tell him that we needed to leave the balloon at his house because I would be coming back the next evening for my actual birthday.
Wendy got me a beautiful birthday card and Mason picked out some AWESOME halloween socks.

He was so proud of his gift, love that little boy! Wendy said as soon as he saw those socks in the store he made a beeline for them and knew they were exactly what he wanted to give Nana. My thought is that they have some road looking markings on them, so that must have attracted him to them! I put them right on and then wore them again when I went over Friday night!

On my birthday, as mentioned, Darvin had to work, but in true birthday fashion I didn't spend too much time working on the house! I met some of my besties (Seminary teacher 'retirees' and current teachers) for breakfast at Eddy's. It was SO nice to chat up a storm. Then all day long I got some awesome phone calls from my family singing and wishing me a happy birthday. It seems like when I was on the line with one person, someone else was calling on the other line to wish me a happy birthday or sing to me! My favorite calls were from the little people in my life. Alex called a couple of times and sang, "happy birthday dear Alex..."! lol Jackson said, "happy, happy!" Erin said, "He just said happy birthday right before we called" and then she tried to get him to say happy birthday and again he said, "happy, happy"! So cute! Then to top it off, Lance called and I could hear Aidan crying in the background. Donna asked Aidan if he remembered Abby dog and he stopped crying immediately as he indicated that he DID remember Abby and he DID remember Aunt Denise, but as soon as he was asked to wish me a happy birthday the tears started rolling again! lol

I went shopping (now isn't that the way to celebrate?!) and got some expensive paint from Sherwin-Williams and a free dose of kick in the pants from the S-W clerk to get some courage to start working on priming and painting the woodworking in the house! I'm not sure why I'm having so much anxiety about it.

I got the piano sold and picked up. I had been asking $350 but ended up selling it for $250.
People just don't value pianos around here and I really needed to get it sold. The couple who purchased it are in their 70s and don't play, but they have kids and grandkids that do, so Grandma wanted to have a piano at her house. I'm glad it was sold to someone that will really enjoy it. I put a touch up coat of paint on the lamppost and painted a mirror that's been on my 'play time' list (as opposed to my 'work time' list).

My dear friend Teri Mickey stopped by with a card and an 'emergency' chocolate bar. I decided that I didn't need to have an emergency to eat it, just needed a birthday!

Wendy would not allow me to celebrate my actual birthday at home alone, so I returned on Friday for a taco bar. My dinner date for the 2nd night in a row at the Middleton's was wonderful. I love that little family. They have kept us in grandkids since the Pascual's moved. I hate that I'm working so much on the house because we haven't had much play time with them. I told Wendy that I need to hurry and finish getting the house ready so we can start having play dates again!

I also felt super loved by all the facebook birthday greetings, before, on and after my birthday from my friends far and near! I got another birthday card today from Lindsey and another birthday present. Briana video taped Alex reading The Friendly Duck and posted it on YouTube. It is the cutest thing EVER! I downloaded it to my computer and need to get it copied onto a DVD so we have it to give to HIS children when he's all grown up! I kept telling Alex and Briana that what I wanted for my birthday was a video of him reading the book. And he did it! He was a little shy about being taped at the beginning, but he warmed up quickly and a couple of times as he was 'reading' he said Nana, Nana! He knew he was reading it just for Nana for her birthday!

I'll continue to celebrate my birthday as we'll be heading down to Texas again later this month. Darvin and I are taking a 7 day Western Caribbean cruise and then spending an additional week and a half with the Texas kids. The girls pitched in for my birthday to give me onboard credit for the cruise so I can get a spa treatment too!

I watched the morning session of General Conference on the computer today and was excited about the announcement of two new temples, one in Tucson, Arizona AND that the age for young men and women to serve full time missions has been lowered to 18 for men and 19 for women! Exciting and in my opinion a true sign that the Savior's 2nd coming is approaching! I LOVED the talks! The Saturday sessions are always the BEST! I missed the Saturday afternoon session so I'm super glad that I ordered conference on CDs again so that I can listen and re-listen to them as I'm driving in my car.

Darvin did a bunch of pruning in the yard and I helped him haul the trimmings to the back yard and over the fence to the orchard where the workers will mow them with the tractor. It's so nice to not have to worry about hauling yard waste to the dump!

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Catch up time...if you're considering reading this you may want to wait until you have time to read a book! Sorry!

I have been a very bad girl! No posts for quite some time! So, I'm going to do some general catching up on the post tonight, but hopefully will fill in the blanks at a later date.

Yikes, I can't even remember what my last post was about! I'm assuming that it was while I was still in Texas helping Ashley and Justin with baby Vona.
It was a great trip, always a wonderful experience to spend time with a brand spanking new grand baby! Vona is a sweet and easy going baby.



A very happy little girl. I got to stay for 3 weeks and then returned home bringing Alex with me for 3 weeks. I need to post about the airline trip, I must not forget!!

What fun! That kid kept us in stitches! He's hilarious just like his Mommy was when she was little. He loves to talk, talk, talk! And Nana and Pops make a good listening audience.
Yakima's own 'Space Station'! I think Alex enjoyed this one more than the real one in Houston!

The surprise meeting with Mason at the Vintiques Car Show in Yakima:
Enjoying and exploring Tow Mater at Vintiques:




Check out this race car
Got to 'drive' some hot rods!



Everybody enjoys snack time (except maybe Mason! lol)


Look Ackex, here's one that's our size:
Enjoying the great weather and grass to play on:

Some of the things we did while Alex was here:
Chill-axed at Costco!

Had play dates at Mason's
Worked hard playing in the swimming pool
Had fun hanging out with Nana and Pops at the Bears games
Enjoyed some kettle corn
Got reacquainted with Boomer
Hob nobbing with Boomer!

Got his own bobblehead thanks to some nice Bears fans


Tia Osso dressed him up in his Mommy's old clothes and he seemed to like it! lol
He got to meet his happy little cousin Brooklyn
Potty training time, happy as a clam if he gets to watch tv or youtube!
Trying on the new 4 wheeler helmet and thinking he's pretty hot stuff
More best buds playing fun!
Evan keeping up with the big boys
As good as the big red boat!
Backyard play time
Love that happy face!
Enjoying the library in Yakima

Took a trip with his best friend Mason and Mason's family to the fire station across the street from Nana and Pops' house:
Got to get in the demo fire truck
Nana climbed up on the front of the truck to get the perfect shot:
Alex with our fireman tour guide
Come on in folks (his favorite vehicle, the firemen's aide truck)
Alex and Nana in the back of the aide truck
Posing on Big Red
Afterward Mason decided it was time for WWF on the front lawn of the fire station
Alex loved it!

Trip to the park to feed the ducks
Fun times with his best buddy:

Hard at work with Pops making a Tow Mater Monster truck for cousin Jackson!

Trip to the park for Evan's (Mason's brother) first birthday party




We didn't see the sign that said 'No wading, fishing, etc in the creek' until after we were in the creek...Oops!


Family trip to the mountains
Lunch time:
Enjoying the great outdoors
Alex and Pops took a 4 wheeler ride, this is serious business
Hold on!
Hanging on for dear life!
Alex had been apprehensive about riding the 4 wheeler, but by the time they returned back to the campsite he was fast asleep (lol)
I'm going to miss this beautiful countryside when we move to Texas!


Hanging with Nana
Alex enjoyed many a pancake for breakfast, lunch or dinner while he was here, apparently Nana spoiled him with her willingness to make pancakes on demand!

It seems like Mason was always in the driver's seat...except this time, and you can probably see why it's a good idea for Mason to continue to be in the driver's seat! lol  Sorry for the poor video quality but I was laughing so hard I couldn't hold the camera still:
At hot rods and harley's we even scored some ice cream!
Nana and Pops' 32nd Anniversary dinner at Creekside West Bar and Grill
Enjoying a visit with Great Grandpa Clement
I LIKE Miss Kitty!
Showing us his pitching moves
Alex was twitter-pated by the Statler girls!
An early birthday at the Middleton's
One of my very favorite parts of Alex's visit was our night time routine. We would put Alex's jammies on him, read a book or two, brush his teeth, take him in to the bedroom where we'd say his prayer and then I'd sing him a few songs. The book chosen more often than not was The Friendly Duck book. It was read so often that I started having Alex 'read' it to me. It was the sweetest thing in the whole wide world! I even bought and had the book mailed to Alex in Texas so he could keep reading it! I keep pestering Briana to record Alex 'reading' it and send the recording to me as a birthday present. My favorite part of him telling the story is where the book reads: 'the boy hides behind the big willow tree' and Alex's version is 'the boy hides behind the big YELLOW tree' (well we DO talk about the yellow DUCK in the book quite often why not a yellow TREE as well! lol). The songs Alex always asked to be sung were, I Am Like A Star, Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star and I Am A Child of God. Such a beautiful and sweet night time routine!

After 3 weeks Alex returned with Pops and me to Texas where he was very happy to be home, he had a great time while he was visiting but missed his family, so it was a happy reunion. We talked and talked and talked in the weeks beforehand about how Daddy would be picking us up at the airport and then dropping us off at the car rental place. I was very afraid that we'd have one upset little boy if he thought he was going to be able to stay with Daddy for the rest of the day, when indeed Daddy had to get back to work! Alex did absolutely fine!

We were able to stay for another week in Texas. Ashley and Justin graciously lent us their home as they were already at the beach house in Crystal Beach before the wedding vow ceremony. We tried very hard to do things each day with Briana and Erin's families. We had fun going to the Dallas zoo one day.
The petting zoo was the favorite stop
Jackson enjoying the company of a friend
Pops and Bryn
Bryn
Emmett
Hello Billy Goat!
Alex loving on cousin Bryn
Emmett comforting cousin Bryn
She finally gave up and CRASHED
Alex is driving...watch out!
Uh, excuse me, Alex, you've got a passenger in the back of your jeep!
Mommy's along for the ride
Pascual family
Who is that masked giraffe?
The Whole Gang
Briana hosted a couple of get togethers including a 3rd birthday party for Alex.

Alex got his wish: A monster jam cake and matching cupcakes
Emmett enjoying the pool with Pops
Briana and 'the spread'
Apparently Emmett's getting hungry or he wants to try his hand at BBQing!
Looking for the perfect birthday shot
Bryn's ready for the pool
Jackson's prepared to swim!
Hey, Mommy wait for me!!
Watch out Jaxy, Alex is after you!
Huey said, "Let's play!"
Cousin Bethany
Dinner time
Hi Y'All
The master BBQ-er
Playing Monster Jam
Two Love Birds
and two more!
Grass is the BEST part!
MMMMMmmmm, licked the tires too and then played some more in the grass!
Opening gifts

On Friday we headed down south. The Pascual's caught up to us on our pit stop at Buc-ee's
Buc-ee's actually a pretty nice guy
and as we were getting ready to leave, the Chatwin's showed up as well!

We had planned to all go to the Space Center (Mission Control) in Houston on our way to Crystal Beach on Friday, but Erin and her family ended up not coming as they got stuck in traffic and the kids were tired by the time they arrived in Houston.

Checking out the electronics
Pascual's touring the lab
Pops enters the Space Shuttle
The boy's favorite part of the Space Center!
Couldn't we have done this for free at McDonald's playland? lol
Pops, the Pascual's and I headed to Crystal Beach after leaving the Space Center. We got to take a nice ferry ride
They made an announcement only to feed the seagulls from the back of the ferry! lol



Upon arriving at the beach house we were treated to a shrimp boil (don't know if this is the correct term) by Justin's brother Taylor. In fact Taylor was in charge of the bbq for the wedding dinner too. He did a great job and the food was all delicious! Some of Justin's family helped provide the rest of the food including wonderful sweet treats. Justin's mom Dolly made the wedding cake which was beautiful and delicious.
Pops meets Vona!
At the beach house there was karaoke Friday and Saturday which put a little damper on sleeping as our bedroom was right above the karaoke deck. ;^) So after not getting much sleep Friday night we decided to 'join em' on Saturday night and did a bit of karaoke ourselves! lol

The ceremony on Saturday was very nice.

Waiting for the bride
The beautiful bride
The bride and matron of honor
Exchanging rings
The kiss
Nana and baby Vona
The Chatwin's
The Pascual's
The Tovar's
It was great getting to meet Justin's family, they rolled out the Southern hospitality for us.
Some of the wedding party
We were able to have some Vona time (Pops' first introduction to another sweet little grand daughter!)
and some Linda time!
and also got to enjoy the beach a little bit with the Pascual's and Chatwin's.
Jackson wasn't super enthused about the waves!
The Pascual family
The Chatwin family
Playing in the sand
Hard at work
Emmett was fearless in the waves
Bryn's hair tells the wind story!
Pops watching Alex at work while Erin and Briana body surf in the background
Some nice neighbors let us borrow their ocean kayak and even took a picture of all of us
Our crab arena
Crabs for the crab arena
Keeping the crabs 'hydrated'
The weather was really windy most of the time we were there and there was a quick bit of wild, crazy rain too. But apparently this was a good thing otherwise we were told it would have been horrendously hot at this time of year.

Pops and I stayed until Sunday.

Most everyone had headed out by Sunday morning so I helped with some of the cleanup before we left to return to Plano.

The night before we were returning home to Washington Briana invited us, Margaret and Doug and Chatwin's over for dinner. Dad had some jalapeno dip from Buc-ee's earlier in the evening and then ate some spaghetti and garlic bread for dinner. The combination really did a number on him! He ended up in the emergency room for most of the night. He felt that his esophagus was spasm-ing, which apparently was the case after they ran every test in the world to rule out other things. I shudder to see the rest of the bills, so far we have about $7,000 worth which the insurance company refused to pay because it was out of the HMA network. Fortunately, since we were out of state they should pay 80% after all. Thankfully there was no heart attack, they didn't find anything in the CT scan other than the deterioration in Dad's spine (which he already knew about) and some fatty liver tissue (which apparently is pretty normal for someone his age). About 1:30 or so in the morning we arrived at Erin's to spend the night so we could spend the last day in Texas with the Chatwin kids. It was fun having some time to play with Jackson and Bryn before we headed for home.

After arriving home I've been somewhat consumed trying to get the house ready to put on the market. Consequently my training for the 1/2 marathon was put on the back burner. I didn't do a single workout! Pathetic. But at least I didn't change my mind about running the 1/2 marathon.

Lindsey, Thomas and Brooklyn came last Friday night (September 14th) to attend Thomas's best friend's wedding on the 15th. Thomas had to head for home on Sunday the 16th to get back to work and school but we are blessed with a visit from Lindsey and Brooklyn for two weeks. Grandparent heaven again!!! Brooklyn is the spitting image of her Mommy when Lindsey was Brooklyn's age. The resemblance is uncanny! Especially Brooklyn's great big smile where her eyes light up and turn in to little moonbeams. It's been such a joy to be able to play with her and love on her. It will be hard to let her go home.
I feel bad that I hardly got a picture of Brooklyn while they were here the two weeks. I was so busy working on the house and playing with her in my spare time that I didn't take the time to take pictures! Boo!! Will definitely have to make up for it when they come for Christmas!

Today was the big day. It was the Indian Summer Half Marathon in Richland.
Beautiful race morning
Dad, Lindsey, Brooklyn and I drove over last night and stayed at the Shilo Inn which was only a mile from the start of the race, perfect distance for a warm up walk to the race!
First half marathon packet pick up!
Happy Nana and Brooklyn at packet pick up
We went and picked up our race packets and then went back to the hotel where Lindsey got Brooklyn down for the night (sort of! lol) while Dad and I went to Famous Dave's for some carb loading! Took some ribs and such back to Lindsey at the hotel room.

Shilo had a really great breakfast at the hotel the next morning, ham, biscuits and gravy, eggs and muffins. Unfortunately before a run I can't eat much and didn't want to make myself sick, so Lindsey and I each ate a 1/2 muffin! We did take a plate of food back to Dad so someone could enjoy it! lol

Me and Lindsey pre-race pic!

Not only did I get a wing man to encourage me along for all "13 point freaking 1 miles" (thanks for the quote Molly!) but I got a personal photographer as well! lol Lindsey was awesome about taking pictures along the way so I'd have lots of great memories of my first half marathon.

Lindsey thought it highly appropriate to take the pic on the right showing Nana messing with her technology at the start of the race, couldn't get the darn Garmin started at the beginning! Other pics are the half way point turn around cone, still plugging along!

My goals were to finish the race and not to come in last. Well Lindsey and I had talked about finishing the race in under 3 hours which I thought was totally do-able, so we decided to make it a goal to run it in under 2:40 which didn't happen, although we WERE under 2:50. Still waiting to get the official time as I couldn't get my Garmin going until after we started the race and Lindsey forgot to stop her Garmin at the end of the race because she was worrying about making sure we got some pictures! But I will say that I did meet my 2 original goals!

There was one lady that we kept up with for a while and talked to part of the way. She was super nice but in better shape than me so she didn't slow down like I did. But the awesome thing was that she was at the finish line waiting for us and gave me a high five, super awesome! (Can you see her there under the time clock?)

Dad was waiting at the finish line for us with baby Brooklyn. Apparently on the way from the hotel to the finish area Brooklyn had a near blow out disaster caught just in time! lol Dad got the pictures of Lindsey and I crossing the finish line together (thanks Pops, for baby duty NS being the team photographer!).





Lindsey and Brooklyn after the race, Lindsey doesn't even look like she just finished a half marathon!

There was another lady that had been behind us and passed us by, but we'd kept her in our sights for most of the race. Lindsey had suggested that we catch up with her and try to run together. She was a wogger as well, but it seemed like I just didn't quite have the energy to run longer than she did. We stayed pretty consistently at the same place behind her. On the 2nd half we started gaining a little on her and she ended up stopping at a restroom so we were finally able to pass her. I thought I heard her come out of the restroom, but when Lindsey turned around to look for her she was nowhere in site. Lindsey kept looking back for her but for the rest of the race didn't see her. She crossed the finish line quite a bit after we did and said that she just got exhausted from the waist down about the time she stopped for the bathroom and just couldn't get herself going again.

It was kind of fun that we passed a group of ladies within about the last mile that I hadn't even seen the whole race. I guess they just ran out of steam at the end too. Well, who's talking actually! Lindsey told me we needed to run the last quarter mile, we started to and then I started walking again. She kept encouraging me and finally I started giving it my all! Had to go up one last hill (at which point I think I was finally back to 'running' again) and then we could physically see the finish line. At that point she saw the time and said "Mom we need to make it our goal to finish this in under 2:50, you can do this" so I laid on the gas (what little there was left in the tank) and off we went. I believe the time was a few seconds over 2:50 when we crossed, but we'd started way in the back of the pack at the beginning, so I'm expecting us to be a little under 2:50 when we finally get our times. One item off the bucket list: finish a half marathon before you turn 50. My 50th birthday is in about 2 weeks and my goal was formulated earlier this year, so not bad for a grandma! lol (EDITOR'S UPDATE: Official time was 2:49:26)

It's after 11 p.m., I'm sore and absolutely exhausted, so I'm going to sign off and take a nice hot epsom salt bath!